In my mind, the problem with it all comes when we try to justify ourselves by taking the focus off of us and looking at something else. It's kinda like the woman at the well. When Jesus got into a "forbidden" area of her life, she changed the subject. And we are the same way. And that is where we get into issues. And that is where I think this question came from when I asked it. <br><br>As far as the questions that Luke presented, I think some of them are fair questions and others are kinda trying to take the focus off the issue at hand. Not that I can say what God is up to in people's lives in reguards to this issue, but I know personally, He is showing me a lot and teaching me a lot about His grace. <br><br>I do have a response to Luke's questions reguarding masturbation in marriage and all that. It is actually not a response but a question that came to mind after reading his questions. Is lust confined to merely single people? If so, then would it be wrong for a married man to take pronographic pictures of his wife and things of that nature with her? <br><br>