John a,

I also believe that only God's elect go to heaven including babies. There is not much information concerning this subject in the Bible. Otherwise we wouldn't have to ask these questions.

Still, the other side of this coin is that there is nothing in the Bible that says that all babies that die in infancy are not elect. God knows who will die and when they will die. He knows that a baby will die. There is nothing wrong in believing that God elected infants that he knows will die in infancy (or in the womb.)

I know that some here will jump all over this and that's fine. I've been around this block too as Pilgrim said. It is indeed a sensitive subject. These are my own thoughts on it...

Michele